Tending to War's Hidden Wounds

Bethesda Naval Hospital, just north of Washington, D.C. / DoD photo

President Obama is visiting Bethesda Naval Hospital Wednesday afternoon, and that’ll get some coverage in Thursday’s papers. But today, on page 1 of the Metro section of the Washington Post, is the kind of story that too often goes untold. It’s a simple article about how nine women — who have spent months caring for their husbands at the same hospital the President is visiting today — were treated to a visit to a local spa to salve their own souls.

“We do a lot of times get overlooked,” one 24-year-old wife, whose Marine husband lost his left leg, told the paper. “I haven’t had to personally deal with the amputation…haven’t had to deal with the pain. But you go through a different kind of pain…You go through emotional. You go through mental. It’s very exhausting.”

War’s wreckage is a lot like an iceberg. Soldiers are the tip that pokes above the surface. Down below is the bulk of war’s damage, done to the families and friends of those who have served. For every soldier killed or wounded, dozens are left behind to tend to memories, or mangled minds and bodies. So it’s nice that these women got their facials and manicures, nice that the Post wrote it up, and nice that you cared enough to read this far. Feel free to help out, too.

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  • afguy

    So it’s nice that these women got their facials and manicures, nice that the Post wrote it up, and nice that you cared enough to read this far.
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    Yes, it is…
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    Now let’s do something to help those not yet wounded or widowed and get their spouses the h*ll out of countries we have no business in.
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    Especially those in which we really can’t explain what it is we’re trying to accomplish.

  • squirmz

    That’s an old photo. The entire area is under heavy construction, because of the hospital consolidation with Walter Reed. I should know. I am there right now!

  • mikew67

    Nowhere to be found in all the talk of government spending; Defense. Now over $750 billion per year. No problem?

    Lift up the rock to find more slush funds, overspending and fraud, than even in Medicare.

    Balkingpoints / www

  • apr2563

    Mark, thank you for sharing these women’s stories. Veterans and their families should always be our first priority.
    Agreeing with afguy, now let’s get the h*ll out of Afghanistan and Iraq. And, let us actually learn from history this time.

  • michaelfury
  • michaelfury

    “President Obama is visiting Bethesda Naval Hospital Wednesday afternoon”

    http://michaelfury.wordpress.com/2008/10/30/the-ones-who-attacked-us/

  • sue_n

    And, let us actually learn from history this time.
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    Apr, you are an optimist, aren’t you?
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    We’re not gonna learn anything from this. As much as we as a nation claim to hate war, we love it too much ever to learn its dark and painful lessons. Just look at how the words “cut defense spending” send people into a tizzy. And listen to our rhetoric.
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    We have one party whose immediate response to any misdeed by another nation, real or imagined, is, “Bomb them into the Stone Age!” or “Invade!” (though invade with what now; the Boy Scouts?) Our other party is so terrified of being labeled “anti-war” that it couldn’t summon the backbone to oppose an invasion it knew was wrong or to end two wars that are fiascos. As if it’s somehow wrong to be anti-war. Are we supposed to be pro-war?
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    We’re not going to learn anything from Iraq or Afghanistan, anymore than we learned anything from Vietnam. We love our bombs too much, we love our tanks too much, we love the idea of the rest of the world cowering before our might too much.
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    And, yes, in our own very perverse way, we love our troops. Just, you know, not enough to bring them the fck home.

  • Mark Thompson

    Hey Squirmz — Believe me, I know — I live just up the street.

  • squirmz

    Howdy neighbor!

    You must have loved that ice storm gridlock then the other day.

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